Mistress Michelle Lacy is a highly-reputable,

in-demand dominatrix who is known for holding multiple world-famous femdom events and has been doing so since 2015. She has been featured in various documentaries, interviews and magazines, with a career spanning almost 2 decades. (ex: Massad, NY Post, Village Voice, Documentary TOUCH).

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Through her hard work and dedication to her craft, she managed to become a respected and successful top-tier Mistress in the industry. 

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Starting her career in NYC in late 2007 she has taken the industry by storm with her creativity and daring to not just dream it, but be it. She currently resides in South Florida. At the height of her career, she purchased two personal dungeon locations  and the estate of Clubdom.com. Selling the Clubdom property, she purchased a new property used for her events and educational experiences called "The Siren House."  Michelle has since closed one of her locations, as she takes fewer appointments these days, and is choosing to focus on her events and members' parties. She enjoys maintaining a more streamlined schedule. 

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Michelle has been a co-coordinator and consultant for the world-famous fashion photographer Stephen Klein's "Fetish" showcase (Madonna, The Kardashians), and has given many lectures and seminars. She has appeared at several NYC book signings, which feature stories about a professional dominatrix or contain a kinky storyline, to discuss and portray an accurate dominatrix representation for readers and fans (ex, Tiffany Reisz, Original Sinner Series). She is frequently asked to teach at BDSM conventions and is asked to work at exclusive fetish events all over the world.  

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Her events and guidance have inspired others in the industry to have their own immersive femdom events, and the industry has been greatly influenced by her creativity,  service-based extended sessions, and creative bondage experiences. 

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While involved in many projects, Michelle has turned down TV shows that have wished to feature her events (VICE), in order to provide privacy and respect for those who attend.  

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Michelle was the first dominatrix to teach an online class in her field. 

Her in-person Dominatrix Arts classes went online, teaching women not only in her physical class, but also around the globe, who had no other access to knowledge and could watch live. 

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Her frequent classes and online mentorships in an industry that told her she was "wasting her time" or "training her competition" have inspired others to teach as well, and helped shift an industry in which practices and education were once rare and closed off. She feels that knowledge belongs to everyone.

She has reached out to many young and aspiring Mistresses to offer a wealth of guidance. Several successful studios and many successful careers are a result of her assistance. 

 

Her Dominatrix Arts classes have inspired many to hold workshops at their own studios, and go online to teach the masses, leading to a more educated and even SAFER industry for so many. 

 

She believes that women should support women, always. She was the first to offer fair pay to women for events, commission incentives, promotion, and other methods of income, which came in for those she hired long after the event ended. She was also a loud voice and a pioneer for the appointment deposits we now don't work without today. 

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Michelle is sometimes sought out for business consultations with many established pros in the industry who feel stuck or want fresh eyes on their business model, branding, and overall, those who seek continued happiness in their own careers. 

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Some of Michelle's mentees have gone off to become successful professional Mistresses themselves, being featured on Netflix HOW TO BUILD A SEX ROOM (Miss Isobel Devi), having films in the Berlin Fetish Film Festival (Mistress Alex NYC, now retired), buying their first homes, supporting their children, and living better lives. 

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Having faced adversity, Michelle has preached shameless self-promotion, and the rightful and fair treatment of ALL types of SWers, helping (along with so many others) our industry change for the better and to become more inclusive.

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"They say those who cannot do, teach. Except, I can do, have done so, and still do, so many incredible and impossible things. Now that I am reaching my final industry years, I want to give back in a bigger way, and leave this beautiful world better than I found it." 

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